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Recently I was called upon for my opinion at Dice Setter
Precision Shooter’s Forum,
http://bonesboard.proboards4.com/index.cgi to answer what I might
suggest for a slump in one’s play. It appeared to me, that the topic of
losing is a bit like talking about cancer. No one that has it seems to want
to call it like it is… a down turn, a losing streak. Yes, I lose and have
been through plenty of losing streaks. You don’t play the game as much as I
have and not experience the swings of the game.
The person who made the post about a slump asked about,
and referenced, a few external causes for being in a losing streak, like how
the stars and planets may be involved.
You can definitely plan your life that way – maybe I can
get a gambler astrologer to help with expert advice. I am in fact in contact
with a group that does exactly that. Yeah, maybe the planets do have
something to do with it, but if you think that I am going to plan my trips
to Las Vegas around the planets, think again. I am not about to hand off all
I know and all of my skill to the power of Mercury in the night sky. Mercury
is always retrograde, so what’s the point… well half the time anyway. It is
not simply the sun and the moon... though there are better days than others
for playing, I admit to that. Do you play golf or fish? Ever have better
scores or catch more fish? That’s the planets too? It could be but life is
too short, thank you. I am going fishing or to the casino no matter how the
planets are aligned.
Joking aside, I am a stickler for keeping a record of all
my casino sessions. Do you keep a journal? If you do, your journal enables
you to read the evolution of your game, leading up to and through a losing
streak. The answer to your losing is to be found within the pages of your
journal. Perhaps the hard part is taking the objective position to see it.
The observant self is something I wrote about a while back. That is,
observing by pulling away from ego and intellect, almost like peering down
from above and taking a good look at what you are doing, independent of your
body. Our tendency is to operate in such a way that we get others to observe
us instead. “Mommy, look at me, no hands!”
By the way, losing is part of the game… oh really? Yes,
if we did not lose, why would we play the game? How profound, bet you never
heard that before… It’s just that I have to remind myself of the facts every
once in awhile. If it were not for me losing, them and those writing about
how they always win could not possibly have anything to write about. They
can thank me later.
Some say that you should play through the slump. This is
great if the bankroll and ego can sustain it. I am sure that there is merit
in this idea. I don’t know why Iraq just popped into my thoughts…
I say, stop the presses and look for the logjam that has
stuffed up the machine. In every losing streak, I have been able to identify
an element relating to the losing. Here are just a few, playing too
aggressive, by playing too much, chasing a loss and denial. The key to these
elements is looking behind the symbols for the real energy of it all.
Somewhere there is a wobble in the force, look and you will find it.
“So, what is the cure Professor?” I am not sure that
there is one. But here’s what I do when I am in a losing streak. I back off
the game. I may go to the casino, but I will not play. I watch. I watch and
see if my perception of the game is accurate. That is to say, I push
out with my feelings and pick up or sense the energy of a game. Pulling that
feeling in, I then translate the feeling into information. Does the energy
feel like winning energy or like losing energy. When my perception is
in agreement with the money flow, I know that my perception is dialed in. If
it is, I take heart knowing that an important aspect of my game is intact.
If not, then I know I am “off” and accept that I am off. No point in forcing
a square peg…
Watching a game is to play the game detached. You have
nothing at risk except your feelings about the game you are watching. You
cannot lose. You can only win from the experience of the education. Your
intention is focused in an unselfish and unbiased way. The focus is on the
game and how it plays out as you watch. You are detached from your own needs
and desires because you are not at risk to lose. You act as a clear vessel,
channeling perception without distractions. Right or wrong, you will see
before your very eyes if you perceive the energy correctly. Incidentally,
there is no right or wrong, it is just a confirmation about your perception
being aligned or switched on for the particular experience. Some times I am
“right on” and other times it is in “right field” for me.
Both sides of the game are valid and necessary. It is
what is! The hard part is to learn to take the same joy of playing with us
when we win or lose. It is not a one sided game. If you find that you are
losing in all of your games, (Blackjack, Dice, Poker, Sports Book, the
Track…) that is your message. Look for the message being given to you in
losing. It now becomes your “new game” to play. “Get yourself out of this
mess Houdini!”
What about my experience when losing? My tendency is to
become gun shy. After numerous losing sessions, I almost play with an
expectancy of losing again. I play too tight, too cautious, too scared and
I cramp my game down to the point where it is no longer “my game”. I am
playing chicken. Once I come to recognize this condition, I also admit that
playing, (that way) is not fun. So, I back off for a while. It took me a
while to accept that I was not having fun playing chicken.
When I return to the game, dice or blackjack, the memory
of losing is fresh as a daisy. The question, “am I still gun shy”, pops
right up. Renewing my game entails the essential win. No goals, just win
baby. So, to rekindle the confidence, a win, is a win, is a win. I begin to
end the slump by locking in wins. Shorter sessions, for sure, and perhaps
walking away from what may have been more money. However, without employing
the basics of discipline I know my game is without foundation. You
must lock and walk with that first win.
Okay, we are back to watching. So, I lock up the $97 or
$7 and I color up. I watch for another twenty or thirty minutes. You know
what? In watching, I discover that if I had stayed and played, I would have
lost more, not won more. This is the confirmation of perception once again.
That is the beautiful thing about gambling and using perception. It is
confirmed for you in a matter of minutes… one way or the other you are going
to see it.
Want to confirm that you are in a losing streak, just
keep playing and keep doing whatever you have been doing. Want to break out
of it, stop and have a serious look at your life. The person playing the
game is the same person you get out of bed with every morning.
Being too hard on your self, I think, is natural for us
all to do. We work so hard to become skilled players. We know great from
mediocre, why settle for less? It is in the beating up on ourselves that we
become demoralized. Being demoralized is the worse condition to be in when
attempting to play the game. You might as well be putting sand in your
pockets before taking a swim too!
Thank goodness for the losing streak. It means you have
something to look forward to. It means you are in the ebb and flow of life.
It means you are alive!
Copyright © 2006
Michael "The Professor"
Vernon
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